Being the Change We Wish to See in the World

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As Mahatma Gandhi said to us, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” What does this mean? Figure out what you feel needs to change in your world and change yourself and your life with its thoughts, intentions and actions accordingly. For example, if we abhor the degrading of our environment, wreaking havoc with our climate, we do what we can to change it. We advocate for sustainable energy and recycle or reuse metal, glass, paper and plastic objects to avoid consigning them to the rising refuse piles on the planet, and we minmize buying products that waste our precious resources. Here in New York City many residents can now compost much of what once ended up in landfills. If we grieve the suffering of farmed animals in the factory production of meats, fish, poultry, eggs and dairy products, we buy only humanely raised foods, or as some would deem to be even better, switch to vegan or vegetarian eating, easier to do today than ever. I know, because I have been a fat and sassy vegan for years with no harmful health effects. If we aim to live in a peaceful and conflict-free world, and to be free from anger in the Metta sense, we practice compassionate listening, and we resist the seductive lure of defensiveness and even of playing devil’s advocate, as well as avoiding blatant arguing, righteous indignation and ego-driven defiance. Of course, we may fall short repeatedly, but we can try again and learn over time to eliminate our knee-jerk and hair-trigger reactions to bombast, offensiveness, false accusations and rage, stepping aside to avoid engagement with the fire of that anger lest our own be ignited as well. Fiery anger spreads rapidly through the tinder-dry undergrowth of mindless existence, running along the ground, up tree trunks, onto roofs, and into untended hearts and minds.

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What is the path we are walking in our lives today? Are we part of the solution, or are we by our advocacy, silent assent or apathy being a part of the very problem we seek to change for the better? When we decide to no longer be a part of angry interactions, inflamed rhetoric, and the need to be right above all else, or the abuse of our fellow sentient beings and the world we share with them, we step onto the path of peace.

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Let us find and keep on the beautiful path of peace with every step. Naturally we will stray in our steps, especially at first, but we can with each moment of awareness step back where the peace is, where the love is, where the healing is.

Namaste

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5 thoughts on “Being the Change We Wish to See in the World

    • Thanks for taking the time to respond, dapperdolly, especially when you disagree with what I wrote. Regarding anger, you might find my previous post “Coping with Discomfort on the Fly” interesting. Actually, people who practice yoga and meditation often use “namaste” among themselpves. It means “the goodness in me bows to the goodness in you,” to briefly paraphrase the definition. So I meant it to apply to anyone who reads my words, and that means you, too. Be well.

      • I wonder why you’d think that post would apply to me. Rhetorical. I don’t need an answer to that patronizing comment.

        I didn’t disagree with you – I agree with the quote and disagree with part of the interpretation. If I’d disagreed with it all I would have said so or not bothered.

        I am a yoga and meditation practitioner.

        I know what namaste means, before the paraphrasing. When I said I’d keep it, I meant that I wouldn’t say it. I wasn’t referring to you.

        All the best.

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